Why does my dog stare at me?
- Battersea Square Vets
- Aug 7
- 2 min read
Dogs stare at their owners for a variety of reasons, including expressing love, seeking attention, or communicating needs.
It's often a way for them to bond with their owners, and can release oxytocin, a hormone associated with love and bonding, in both dog and human.
However, staring can also be a sign of aggression or a way of asking for something, like food or a walk.

So why do they do it?!
Positive Reasons:
Affection and Bonding:
Dogs may stare at you simply because they love you and enjoy your company. This mutual gaze can release oxytocin, strengthening the bond between you and your dog.
Attention and Interaction:
Dogs may stare to get your attention, especially if they want to play, go for a walk, or get a treat.
Understanding and Reading Body Language:
Dogs are observant and may stare to try to understand your actions, emotions, and intentions. They learn to read your body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice.
Seeking Comfort or Support:
Some dogs may stare when they sense their owner is upset and may approach to offer comfort.
Communication:
Communicating Needs: A dog might stare at you to indicate they need something, like food, water, or a trip outside.
Requesting Attention: Staring can be a way to ask for pets, cuddles, or playtime.
Concerning Reasons:
Aggression:
A hard stare, accompanied by other signs like bared teeth or growling, can be a warning sign of aggression.
Confusion:
Sometimes, dogs stare when they're confused or trying to figure something out.
Curiosity:
They might be curious about something new or unusual.
Cognitive Dysfunction:
In older dogs, staring can sometimes be a symptom of cognitive dysfunction.
How to interpret your dog's stare:
Consider the context:
Pay attention to the situation, your dog's body language, and the time of day.
Look for other cues:
Does the stare coincide with a specific need, like mealtime or the sound of their harness or lead?
Don't force eye contact:
If you're unsure about the reason for the stare, avoid prolonged eye contact, especially if your dog seems aggressive.
Seek professional help if needed:
If you're concerned about your dog's staring or if it's accompanied by other unusual behaviours, consult with your vet
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